College Newspaper Bondage Info
I love sex writing from college newspapers. It’s so fresh and earnest, eager to be sexually sophisticated, and yet fundamentally… not clueless, that’d be too harsh; not innocent… maybe “unseasoned”? Here we have a report on a young lady who led a BDSM talk, that was not entitled “What I Did at My Summer Job” but perhaps could have been:
Lola Pellegrino ’08 is not the poster girl of BDSM.
But she did facilitate a discussion on Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism (BDSM) at WesWell’s Sexual Health Expo on Saturday.
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Pellegrino maintains that she is “not an authority” on BDSM, though she worked as a secretary for a group of dominatrices last summer.
During the discussion, Pellegrino emphasized concepts taught to her by the dominatrices she worked with, such as the importance of consent of all partners during any kind of BDSM.
“I used to just smack guys I was making out with,” Pellegrino said. “[Without] asking first.”
When Pellegrino told this to the dominatrices she worked with, they were appalled that she would smack her partners without their consent.
“They were all like, you can’t smack, you have to ask first!” Pellegrino said.
Er, you think?
