No Boring Bondage
Here’s a mini-rant from The Twisted Monk:
Go to any SM/leather event and you are bound to see folks wearing collars. Collars have a wide range of meanings and varying levels of significance to those who wear them. However what is it with the bored looking folks in collars? Both Alex and I were a bit embarrassed to see a rather large number of bored looking women, usually dressed in a badly tied rope harness, being lead about on a collar and leash. As it to add insult to injury, if the bored expressions were not painful enough to watch, they did not even have the decency to use good rope!
Gentlemen, I am the last person to preach “the pure kink” or tell other people what that might be. But I’ll hazard this much: If your submissive looks bored, you’re not doing it right!
A well tied rope harness should never be boring…
(Sigh, now I’ll get emails from people chaffing me for dissing their preferred form of “boredom play”.)