Bondage Sex At Harvard
A really nice, basic, “this is kink at Harvard” article in the Harvard Crimson does the rarely-achieved in college journalism: it manages to discuss kink and kinky sex without any of that “ha ha not me though” nervous posturing that you always used to see.
Sarah likes it when her hands are tied to the bedpost and a bar is secured between her knees, spreading them apart. During sex, her boyfriend dominates her roped body as she happily calls him “sir” and “master.” She asks her boyfriend to objectify her and call her derogatory terms.
For Sarah, whose name has been changed to protect her privacy, the pain from the ropes is not what turns her on. Sarah is kinky, which for her means enjoying losing control of the situation, and even control over her own body.