On Looking For Tops: A Tip
Clarisse Thorn offers advice to keep in mind when looking for a BDSM top. It strikes me as good:
Here’s a pro tip on looking for tops. If you’re talking to a top who can’t stop bragging about how awesome and experienced they are, I advise you to walk away. Or perhaps I should merely say that I, personally, would walk away from that. My favorite, most respectful dominant partners have all had a hefty sense of humility and been very willing to learn — even if they were very experienced.
It’s from a post called Submissive Skills which has much else of potential value.
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