I Want To Dominate You
This animation of a sensible kinky woman having coffee with a would-be dom made me literally laugh out loud. Too many like this one, out there!
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I especially like the part “you’re not a true sub.” Classic!
When vanilla guys get shot down, the worst of them respond with a sour-grapes denial of the woman’s sexuality. “Oh, she’s just a frigid bitch.” I see “You’re not a true sub” as the BDSM version of that. It couldn’t possibly be a flaw in one’s attempted mastery; oh no, it’s the sub that’s not doing it right.
She asks him, “Why me specifically?”
Hmmm… I wonder what a good answer would be?
How about, “I want to hear what your voice sounds like when it switches from alto to soprano.” ?
I believe a good answer at that point would be a sincere-sounding compliment that indicated the would-be dom viewed her with specific human interest, rather than just as an interchangeable female plaything. Bonus points if the compliment reveals that the would-be dom had been specifically attentive to her and noticed something non-obvious to be attracted by.
What too many people seem to miss is that BDSM relationships are still relationships. “I want to fuck you one or two times” is really not enough to be getting on with.