Your First Playtime: 10 Suggestions
Domme Sharyn Ferns has written a how-to guide of sorts for a new dominant’s first-ever play session. I can’t say I necessarily think every suggestion is equally strong, but if you are indeed in the target audience for this post, I think you’ll find much that is useful and reassuring:
10 Steps To Make Your First BDSM Playtime Amazing
Suggestion #7 is so good, I still use it as often as I can get away with it, which is pretty often:
7. Use a blindfold
A blindfold is both hot and disorientating for them, and a confidence boost for you. If you are nervous, it hides those nerves very well and it’s nice to know that if you do get flustered they won’t see you faffing about or checking the playlist or fumbling with things while you figure out what to do next.
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