There’s an important line between sharing a visual snapshot of a gritty fantasy moment that involves a celebrity, and sharing an aggressive text narrative about that person, or so it seems to me. One of the great things about the visual arts is that each of us can interpret the image as we like, and there’s resultant ambiguity. The scene might be a lovingly-negotiated moment of deliciously-consensual rough sex, if that’s how the viewer wants to think about it. When we start writing down the details, especially noncon scenarios about actual people, some readers might find that creepy or threatening.
Please don’t think I am judging you as the commenter that way, because I’m not. But I do moderate comments on this blog and one of the reasons is to keep them from getting dark in ways that I wouldn’t be able to defend to my own loved ones and the people in my community. It’s genuinely not personal; I have regular commenters who ride the line and seem happy to have about 50% of their comments published and the other 50% not. That’s just one of the ways I work to keep Bondage Blog going decade after decade.
UmmmmNo commented on August 27th, 2023 at 6:05 pm:
White boyfriend with pleading look in his eye… check.
Black, well-hung males fucking the white girl… check.
This image hits surprisingly many clichés of cuckolding porn…
What song is she singing in the drawing, do you think?
My last comment got denied? Really?
This picture needs to turn into a whole story / series.
How she gets tricked away from her security, bound up, etc etc.
There’s an important line between sharing a visual snapshot of a gritty fantasy moment that involves a celebrity, and sharing an aggressive text narrative about that person, or so it seems to me. One of the great things about the visual arts is that each of us can interpret the image as we like, and there’s resultant ambiguity. The scene might be a lovingly-negotiated moment of deliciously-consensual rough sex, if that’s how the viewer wants to think about it. When we start writing down the details, especially noncon scenarios about actual people, some readers might find that creepy or threatening.
Please don’t think I am judging you as the commenter that way, because I’m not. But I do moderate comments on this blog and one of the reasons is to keep them from getting dark in ways that I wouldn’t be able to defend to my own loved ones and the people in my community. It’s genuinely not personal; I have regular commenters who ride the line and seem happy to have about 50% of their comments published and the other 50% not. That’s just one of the ways I work to keep Bondage Blog going decade after decade.
I totally get it.
I went too specific.