Bondage Blog

Look, I’m a pervert. I own it. I like bondage, I like bondage porn. Does all my porn have to have bondage in it? Of course not! But even when I’m watching regular porn, I’m looking for kinky elements: rough sex, a hint of BDSM, a bit of hair pulling, strong hands on her neck. Dishevelment, breathlessness, some hint of power exchange, fetish, transgression. The kinds of sex positions that would work for bondage sex, whether she’s tied up in the porn I’m actually watching or not. It’s just how I’m wired.

Of course that wiring also controls my thinking when I am being a voyeur. So, when I hit a reallifecam joint like Voyeur House, which is one of those sites where sixteen beautiful people live their lives (including their very active sex lives) 24/7 on seventy-plus cameras at nine or so locations for the entertainment of paying members, what do I do? I look for signs of kinky sex!

The free cameras for non-members, of course, don’t show you the bedrooms or the showers. So we aren’t going to see all the yummy cam-performer exhibitionist sex right on the front page of the site. That’s all stored in paying-member archives, or on the “let’s check the replay” 24-hour digital rewind archives (for all 70 cameras!) that are also available to paying members.

What we do get to see for free is thumbnails from all those member-only cams, 24-hour rewind archives, and stored-by-popular demand deep archives. And while scanning those didn’t show me any elaborate bondage gear or a dungeon-cam in the Voyeur House basement (now, there’s a tip for the member suggestion box!) I did find some archive thumbs that made me suspect some of the Voyeur House residents of being at least a leetle bit freaky. Check out the member archive thumbs for Ava and Luke here. Breath play in the kitchen, and a little head-down submissive anal on the couch?

My vanilla lady-friends (especially the more sexually progressive among them) are adamant that there’s nothing inherently submissive about blowjobs, and I agree 100% with that. Intellectually. But visually? A thumb like this one of Cynthia sitting on the bed taking care of Raul will still catch my eye. Nothing necessarily submissive about it. I get that. Likewise, there’s no inherent reason to think her wrists are tied behind her head in the other thumbnail. Maybe she’s just relaxing… But the way my brain is wired, when I scan down a page, a thumb like that jumps right out at me and says “bondage sex going on right here!”

At the end of the day, I have a lot of fetishes. And watching people through a bunch of all-seeing cameras? That’s got a power-thing going on too. It just might be kinky enough for me!