Bondage Blog

These days we enjoy such an amazing abundance of telecommunications options for getting busy! Back in the day, “phone sex” meant one thing only: plastic phone receiver mashed against your ear, somebody sexy on the other end spinning a verbal picture of your fantasy. She might be your spouse on the other coast, your long distance girlfriend, or a paid professional phone sex operator, but somebody was probably going to open with “so what are you wearing?”

The invention of the internet, the webcam, text messaging with pictures, and the video-capable smartphone opened up exciting new vistas. These days phone sex could mean a video call on the computer, a cam session on your phone, or so many different kinds of teasing and flirtation with dirty pictures, voice, video, or text messages — whatever is convenient, sexy, and feels safe. The only thing that hasn’t changed is that you can sext with someone you’re trying to seduce, with your distant partner, or with a professional chat host like you’d find on Arousr.com. So many options!

I think my favorite kind of sext will always be the surprise dirty picture, intended to seduce. They say a picture is worth a thousand words and when it comes to making your intentions clear or motivating somebody to get out in the cold and drive over to your place with drinks and fast food, that’s so true! This dominant lady definitely understands how well it works:

It’s not just a dominant’s trick, either. Sure, there are perils to “topping from below” and bratty subs routinely get taken in hand. But does it ever seem to stop them? No it does not! When you’re a forgetful lesbian domme and you leave your panties at your sub’s house, and she teases you with photos of them, so you demand she takes them off, do you really have any reason to be surprised at the contents of her final tease-photo? If you want to her stop debauching your lingerie, you’re gonna have to go over there and make her!

And then of course we must not forget the joys of using your smartphone to dominate your submissive from a distance. Perhaps making her go for a naked run through the dark city — texting you updates with her thumbs as she goes — is a bit over the top. OK, yeah, a lot over the top. But it’s a fun idea, and there are lots of safer things you can dream up that use the same basic idea.

If you do not love the many kinky varieties and possibilities of modern phone sex, I don’t know what to tell you. So much fun to be had!

Image credits, top to bottom: The smug mistress sharing a trophy picture of her helpless ejaculatory male slave is by the Taiwanese artist Bow. The slinky minx sharing a seductive selfie in her fancy white leather bondage gear and pearls is by Dishwasher1910. The obedient submissive giving her master a kinky webcam sex show is by Shuuji. The horny dominatrix who snaps a “come hither” nude pic to motivate her sub is by Sinsumii. The muscular but oh-so-bratty lesbian submissive in (and out) of her mistress’s panties is by Owler. And the elaborate phone-monitored public-bondage exercise task fantasy is by Uberis.