Bondage Selfies

woman takes a selfie of her bitchsuited slave

The whole notion of a “selfie” gets complicated fast in the BDSM context. I especially enjoy the ones where the submissive or bottom is snapping herself in fetishwear and/or light bondage. Perhaps she’s preparing herself for a date night of nonstop bondage and sex, or maybe she’s teasing a dom who isn’t close enough to play with her. Sometimes she’s following the instructions of a long-distance lover, and taking pictures to prove her obedience. All of these are great good fun.

gagged woman applies lipstick as she takes a selfie and prepares for her bondage date

In other images the person taking the “selfie” is the dominant. The woman in bondage is background decoration, or even a trophy. The objectification is much stronger in this kind of bondage selfie, and sometimes verges on humiliation, whether that’s deliberate and obvious or implicit and subtle. These kinks are further from the active centers of my fantasy life, so I’m not as drawn to this kind of bondage selfie, but it’s such a common mode of play it gets represented in erotic art (like the images for this post) more often than the bottom-selfies I like best.

angry masc lesbian takes a selfie of her red-headed bondage girlfriend

Since the dawn of the cell phone era, we have enjoyed an explosion of erotic amateur selfies of all kinds. Hipsters and snide-poseur cultural commentators like to spew anti-selfie snark, apparently because they think it makes them look smarter if they can crap on everybody else by calling others narcissistic and shallow. But my entire creative life centers around curation of erotic imagery, and so from my perspective, selfies are an unmitigated social good. There’s more authenticity contained in a selfie, whether naked or posed in fetish clothing/gear, than you’ll usually find in commercial porn. Seeing what people are actually doing in their erotic lives when they aren’t being paid to do it? That’s never going to get dull for me!

Jessica Rabbit takes a selfie of all the humiliating writing on her body

batgirl takes a selfie with harley quinn, who appears defeated and tied up

Of course there’s also a lot of stylistic overlap between the kind of erotically charged selfies this post is about and the generally-feminine world of makeup and fashion as expressed on erotica-hostile platforms like Instagram. Women who live and breathe the photo documentation of clothing and appearance take a lot of crap from men, who may enjoy the fruits of their labors but don’t respect the hustle that goes into maximizing attractiveness. I therefore grinned hugely when I found this rope bondage selfie that’s a perfect and loving parody of a fashion-girlie clothing post:

two women take a selfie to show off the rope bondage harnesses they are wearing

Image credits, top to bottom: The woman using a selfie stick to snap herself with her bitch-suited blonde girlfriend is by RoundsChen. The gagged woman touching up her lipstick as she prepares for a hot bondage date night is by LordAardvark. The stern-looking woman snapping a selfie starring her thoroughly-tied up red-headed girlfriend is by MLeth. The gagged Jessica Rabbit taking a photo of the degrading writing on her body is by an unknown artist. Batgirl gloating for her own camera as a bound Harley Quinn fumes is by SanePerson. The two women modeling “rope dresses” are by Keeks.

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Kink.com Halloween 2023 Sale: 66% Off!

This is just a quick note to let you know that the best Kink.com sale of the year has started. 66% percent off for either the monthly the yearly plans, or there’s a $6.66 six-day trial if you don’t feel like commitment. Happy Halloween!

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Roped Pussy

This rope bondage closeup comes from a defunct tumblr, which is all that I know about it:

naked cunt wrapped and framed in bondage rope

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Pillory Reenactment

It turns out that, ever since pillories fell out of fashion, people have looked for opportunities to dress their women up in historical garb and bung them back into pillories just for fun. And we all know whose fun it is for:

pillory fun 1938

This one is supposed to be in Salem in the 1930s.

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Bondage Anal On An Unmade Bed

She had her sneakers on when he caught her, but apparently she didn’t run fast enough. And he, obviously, doesn’t care about what they’re gonna do to that bare mattress he’s fucking her on:

woman with bound wrists writhes on a mattress and pillows while her captor slips his dick up her ass from behind

Photo is from Looking For Trouble at Kink.com.

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Chained In Her Cell

It looks like homegirl has stabbed a clear path all the way to the dungeon to effect this rescue, but how is that half a set of disassembled kitchen shears she’s clutching to her bosom going to get the cell door unlocked or the shackles off?

woman with her hands shackled to the ceiling of her dungeon jail cell waits while her rescuer stares hopelessly through the bars at her

Illustration is from Baron Von Oscht’s Forest Of Naked Thrills in the July 1967 issue of Man’s True Danger magazine.

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Tigress In A Net

The featured tigress is MENSA member Joy Johnson, as seen in the November 1985 issue of Playboy:

nude blonde in tiger strips and face paint struggles against a capture net

She explains the photo this way:

My husband has always said that if I were an animal, I’d be a cat. So here I am!

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